Say You Are Sorry

Say sorry to your man before you seek help somewhere else. I work with women most of the time, who believe love means never having to say you are sorry. When these women are in a relationship they think saying sorry is beneath them. So, their relationships become a competition to hurt each other as opposed to sharing love.

I have come across women who are responsible for the break up of their relationships. They come to me wanting to get their relationship back on track. I do this often and successfully. But, when you probe these women and throw the bones there is one thing that comes to the fore, they are at fault. You will discover that they have been less than forthright with their partners. They have cheated on their men and they have been caught. What do they do? They fight back, refuse to apologize, they want to win and the result is the total break down of the relationship. This is a relationship that would have easily been restored by a simple genuine sorry goes up in flames.

When the relationship breaks down, these ladies discover that they actually loved their man. They also discover to their dismay that the man they were cheating with only wanted them as long as they stayed in the old relationship. As soon as they announce that their relationship has broken down, this man, the third party disappears as well. The women are left in limbo and they then run to me for help. I have to help. That is what I do. But, saying sorry with empathy and sincerity, that you real did hurt your man would save the situation faster than a traditional healer. The apology must be genuine, for it to be accepted. Un-insincere apology can be seen a mile a way and it will yield no results for you. An apology must accompanied by a change in your ways. Playing two men, will not last. You will be caught sooner other than later.

A true apology creates forgiveness. It also means that your man will not keep it at the back of his mind, simply waiting for time to pounce and pull off his own revenge. A successful apology requires empathy and the security and strength to admit fault, failure, and weakness. But, most of us are so busy winning that we can't concede our own mistakes.

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